Because: Coffee Time Again: Lessons on Friendship from Scripture and Story
Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "To Be snd Do," hosted by Phil Emerson. In this brief but profound edition, Phil explores the power of friendship, the depth lurking within familiar scriptures, and the simple—yet revolutionary—idea of gathering together for meaningful conversation, all set to the evocative background of Ken Medema’s song “Coffee Time Again.”
Episode Summary:
Phil opens the episode by inviting listeners into a “coffee time moment.” He reflects on the joy of being present with friends and the spiritual sparks that seemingly ordinary occasions can ignite. Drawing from the Gospel of John, Phil highlights the transformative words of Jesus: “I no longer call you servants, but I call you friends.” This scripture forms the basis for a deeper reflection on the value of friendship and the challenge to move beyond mere roles or titles in our relationships.
To illustrate friendship’s transformative potential, Phil recounts a moving story from Spain during the Inquisition, where a rabbi and an imam—once strangers and presumed enemies—become friends through simple, honest conversation. This, he suggests, is the spirit we’re all invited to embody through intentional acts of befriending.
Phil concludes by encouraging listeners to share a “coffee time” with another, reminding us that every moment can become a cup of “love and laughter.”
Three Key Takeaways:
- Scriptures Can Spark Spiritual Awakening
- Phil encourages listeners not just to read, but to experience the Bible as a living document. Scripture, he suggests, is filled with “time bombs of spirituality”—moments that can surprise us with relevance and power, especially when we slow down and listen for deeper meaning.
- From Servants to Friends: The Power of Redefining Relationships
- Drawing from Jesus’s invitation in John 15, Phil emphasizes the shift from mere servanthood to authentic friendship. He invites us to consider: Who in our lives do we view from a hierarchical lens, and how might we foster genuine friendship instead? This shift can transform not only our relationships but our communities.
- Coffee Time: Making Space for Connection and Understanding
- The episode spotlights the simple, sacred act of gathering with others. Through the story of the rabbi and imam, Phil demonstrates how sharing conversation—even (and especially) across lines of difference—fosters connection, breaks down barriers, and turns strangers into friends.
Final Thought:
As Ken Medema’s lyrics suggest, every day offers a new chance for “a cup of love and laughter.” Whom will you invite for coffee time today?
