Dec. 1, 2025

Because: Finding Joy in Poetry and Life’s Simple Pleasures

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Because: Finding Joy in Poetry and Life’s Simple Pleasures

Because

Host: Phil Amerson

Show Notes

In this short yet heartwarming episode of "To Be snd Do," Phil Amerson invites us into a gathering of retired friends wrestling with the world's problems but choosing, just this once, to focus on joy. Through personal stories and the power of poetry, Phil Amerson reminds listeners to pause and reflect on what truly brings them happiness in life.

Episode Summary

Phil Amerson begins by recounting a recent meeting with a group of retired men. Typically, their conversations drift toward the struggles and issues facing the world. However, their most recent gathering took a different turn when someone asked, “What brings you joy?” The answers were as diverse as the men themselves: sports, grandchildren, travel, the simple pleasure of a meal, and gratitude for the ability to help others.

For Phil Amerson, poetry is a source of joy. He shares his ongoing quest to learn new poems even in retirement. This leads him to recite "Our Real Work" by Wendell Berry, a revered poet and novelist from Kentucky. The poem explores themes of uncertainty, work, and the beauty of challenges—summed up in the striking line, “It is the impeded stream that sings.”

Three Key Takeaways

  1. Joy Can Be Found in Everyday Life
  2. The conversation among Phil Amerson and his friends highlights how joy arises from both ordinary and extraordinary moments—whether it's a football game, family, good food, or helping others. It’s a reminder to look for happiness in everyday experiences.
  3. Poetry as a Gateway to Reflection
  4. For Phil Amerson, poetry offers solace, inspiration, and joy. Sharing and memorizing poems—like Berry’s “Our Real Work”—can be a meaningful way to process life’s uncertainties and celebrate its mysteries. Poetry invites us to pause, listen, and find wisdom in artful words.
  5. Embracing Uncertainty Is Part of Our ‘Real Work’
  6. Berry’s poem suggests that not knowing exactly what to do or which way to go is not a failing but a beginning. When our minds are “baffled,” we are truly engaged, and life’s obstacles can help us find our unique song—the very challenges that impede us also shape us and inspire growth.

 

Whether you’re facing uncertainty or searching for joy, this episode encourages you to embrace both with openness and curiosity.