Embracing Embarrassment for a More Meaningful Life

In this thoughtful "Because" episode of To Be and Do, host Phillip Amerson invites listeners into a reflective space he calls the "because moments." Drawing on inspiration from the renowned Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, Amerson explores a powerful—if unconventional—path to spiritual and personal growth: the importance of embarrassment.

The brief but impactful segment offers a window into both Heschel’s profound wisdom and Amerson’s aptitude for making deep concepts feel accessible and relevant. Below, we’ll explore three key takeaways from this episode, along with reflections on how they might transform your day-to-day awareness.

1. The Cure of the Soul Begins with Embarrassment

One of the episode’s central insights, borrowed from Heschel, is the idea that meaningful change begins not with pride or self-congratulation, but with a sense of embarrassment. Amerson shares Heschel’s view that if we are to move towards, as he puts it, “more healthy righteousness, a more faithful way of living,” we must first become embarrassed by the aspects of ourselves that fall short—our pettiness, prejudices, envies, and conceits.

This is a radical notion in a culture that often encourages us to avoid or hide embarrassment at all costs. Yet, as Heschel and Amerson suggest, it’s only by facing these uncomfortable truths that we open the door to healing and deeper growth. This moment of honest embarrassment becomes the catalyst for personal transformation.

2. Rediscovering the Grandeur and Holiness of Life

Amerson paraphrases Heschel’s profound observation that life, in all its grandeur, is too often diminished—turned into a carnival that distracts us from its true meaning. Yet at its core, the world is full of wonder and holiness, if only we take the time to see it. Here, Amerson calls listeners to rejoice in all that is good and to be genuinely embarrassed when we fail to notice the goodness surrounding us.

This takeaway is a call to mindfulness. It asks us to recognize those fleeting moments when we miss something beautiful because we’re caught up in trivial concerns. By learning to “feel embarrassed” about our inattentiveness to the wonders of life, we might find our way to greater gratitude and reverence.

3. A Universal Message of Care and Belonging

The episode closes on an affirming note: God’s care is not selective; it is “for all and for you in every moment.” This reminder reinforces the episode’s central themes—our shared struggles, our collective lapses in awareness, and the ever-present potential for grace. Embarrassment is not an end, but a beginning; it is the first step on a journey back toward connection, faithfulness, and joy.

Conclusion

To Be and Do continues to live up to its promise of thoughtful reflection and spiritual inquiry. Phillip Amerson’s engagement with Heschel’s wisdom provides listeners with a gentle but transformative challenge: to bravely embrace our own embarrassment, so that we may uncover deeper dimensions of meaning, gratitude, and belonging in our lives.