On this episode of the To Be and Do podcast, host Phil Amerson) welcomes  Tim Soerens, executive director of the Parish Collective and author of Everywhere You Look. Together, they explore what it means to “be and become the church in the neighborhood” and why restoring local connections is more vital today than ever. Their conversation weaves together stories, practical wisdom, and provocative questions for church leaders—and anyone longing for healthier, flourishing communities.

Reimagining Church: From Sunday Morning to Everyday Neighborhoods

A central thread throughout the episode is Soeren's call to reorganize the church around relationships and the pursuit of God’s shalom, rather than mere institutional growth. He highlights the Parish Collective’s mission to tell stories of where God is at work, convene people through learning communities and conferences, and consult with larger church organizations who want to see neighborhoods thrive (01:09). The challenge, he emphasizes, isn’t about bigger Sunday morning numbers—it’s about seeing genuine flourishing “in, with, and across all of our neighborhoods” (01:48).

Key Takeaways

1. Neighborhood Collaboration Outshines Competition

The podcast underscores how focusing on neighborhoods transforms church dynamics. When congregations ask “What does the dream of God look like in and for this place?” collaboration, rather than competition, becomes natural. Soerens contrasts this with a “market share” mindset, where churches vie for the most attendees. Instead, a neighborhood focus invites more partners and assets, shifting our imagination toward shared flourishing (13:00).

2. Weak Links and Bridging Relationships Matter

Both Amerson and Soerens' explore the importance of “weak” or “bridging” relationships. Social scientists have shown that these connections, which often begin with neighbors we know only in passing, form the connective tissue of resilient communities (17:06). Over time, saying hello at the corner store leads to genuine relationships and shared opportunities. Soerens suggests faith communities should invest in these everyday interactions—not just internal circles—helping people see where God is at work and join in.

3. Leadership as Convening and Connectorship

A profound moment comes when the hosts reflect on the nature of leadership. Drawing on the insight of Peter Block, Soerens suggests that true leadership is “convening”—bringing scattered people together, rather than exercising technical prowess or charisma (25:05). Rather than simply training leaders, perhaps what’s needed most are “connectors”—those who build bridges, host conversations, and cultivate shared purpose in their neighborhood.

The Power of the Local

Throughout the episode, Soerens provides a compelling case for returning attention to the places where we live. Whether sharing stories of bus stops, Chicago’s neighborhoods, or the way a simple Ash Wednesday mark connects strangers, he insists the future of the church—and society—lies in rediscovering locality, relationship, and shared imagination. As national and global systems falter, cities and neighborhoods are uniquely poised to shape “maximum flourishing” through everyday faith lived together (14:39).

For anyone longing to see the church—or their own life—make a real difference, this conversation offers clarity, encouragement, and plenty of next steps.

Explore more: Learn about the Parish Collective and the movement for neighborhood renewal at their website. Read Everywhere You Look for deeper insights from Tim Soerens.