Welcoming the Stranger Hospitality Lessons from Parish Life and Beyond w/ Jonathan Messimi (Encore Presentation)
In this thoughtful episode of the To Be and Do podcast, host Philip Amerson is joined by Jonathan Massimi and to explore the profound themes of belonging, hospitality, and the transformative power of community. Rooted in the mission of the Belonging Exchange, the conversation invites listeners to reflect on the richness found in genuine relationships and the everyday practice of being both hosts and guests in our communities.
At the core of this dialogue is the concept of asset-based community development (ABCD). Jonathan Massimi reflects on how, too often, communities and individuals are viewed through a lens of scarcity—a framework that emphasizes problems rather than potential. Instead, he advocates for shifting the narrative toward recognizing and celebrating the inherent gifts that people bring, often expressed through their stories and lived experiences.
Philip Amerson connects this idea to the spiritual practice of the Eucharist, describing it as not just a ritual, but a full-bodied experience that offers a "grammar" for how we live and interact. Through liturgy and storytelling, he explains, we cultivate ways of seeing ourselves and others that are grounded in abundance and mutual gratitude, rather than deficiency.
Listeners are treated to heartfelt anecdotes from the hosts’ own ministries, such as stories of healing circles where vulnerability leads to laughter and real transformation, and tales of building trust with those often labeled as outsiders. Whether it’s sharing a humble meal or receiving hospitality from someone society might overlook, these experiences illuminate the radical value and belonging every person offers.
Ultimately, the episode circles back to the importance of interdependence over independence. By learning to approach others as guests—embracing humility and curiosity—we open ourselves to new ways of seeing and being, finding strength and faith not just in ourselves, but through our neighbors.
Key Takeaways:
- Focus on Gifts, Not Deficits: Asset-based community development transforms how we see people and communities, emphasizing strengths over shortcomings.
- The Power of Story: Stories are the “currency of the streets,” holding deep value for connecting people and fostering belonging.
- Hospitality as a Spiritual Practice: True belonging often comes when we position ourselves as guests, open to receive the gifts of those around us.
- Interdependence Matters: Genuine community thrives when we cherish interdependence over rugged independence.
- Surprise and Transformation: By peeling back the “labels” placed on others, we discover unexpected gifts and new perspectives that challenge and enrich us.
For more on fostering belonging in your community, visit belongingexchange.org. Listen in and start your own journey toward seeing abundance and connection in the world around you.
